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Daily Activities are short reflections and prompts designed to spark meaningful conversations.

Share your perspective in the comments, learn how others think and build clarity about your values and relationship readiness. It takes just a minute a day and helps you engage with intention.

120 days ago

Loving vs Being Loved

Would you rather be with someone:

who loves you more than you love them

OR

someone you love more than they love you?

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F/47 Verified 112 days ago

who loves you more than you love them because you feel secured as to someone is there for you ,which automatically as time passes becomes vice versa also


M/32 Verified 118 days ago

who loves me more than I love.

M/32 Unverified 120 days ago
I love them more than they love me.
M/44 Verified 120 days ago

I would choose someone who loves me more than I love them.
At this stage of life, I really value being cared for and genuinely seen. As for my love towards them, that is something I can work on. I would much rather build on my side than be in a place where I am just waiting and hoping their love for me grows, which is out of my control.

M/26 Verified 120 days ago
To whom I love more!
F/29 Unverified 120 days ago
Who loves me more than i love
F/31 Unverified 120 days ago
A
110 days ago

First Date Deal breakers

When you go on a first date, what would feel like the biggest turn-off for you?

A. Talking only about themselves
B. Checking the phone constantly
C. Being rude to staff
D. No curiosity about you

Share your pick and tell us why you chose it.

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M/44 Unverified 36 days ago

A, B, C and D. First date for sharing their feelings and love. Above said four options are the biggest turn-off for first date.

F/47 Verified 97 days ago

talking only about themselves

F/47 Verified 109 days ago

Talking more about themselves and showing less curiosity about the other,not willing to explore the other

F/55 Unverified 110 days ago

A, B or C: If the person does not seek to know the other, it is probably because they are not really interested in him or her.

F/34 Verified 110 days ago

c. Being rude to staff

M/26 Verified 110 days ago

B. Checking phone constantly, on first meet itself. It's could be a sign on carelessness about next person.

Option C is equally challenging situation.

19 days ago

Weekends and Wellbeing

A member reached out to me recently and during our conversation they shared this line:
"Weekdays are easy and busy, so sorted."

The implication was that weekends tend to feel more challenging emotionally.

How do weekends feel for you? What makes them easier or harder and what helps you navigate them?

Do share your feelings, reflections or experiences.

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M/26 Verified 19 days ago

I feel empty and challenging during weekends. Still figuring out, what could be the optimum utilisation of weekends. During the free time, mind plays the tricks.

99 days ago

Thinking of Home

When you think of home, what is the first thing that comes to mind - a smell or a sound?

Maybe it is the smell of chai being made in the kitchen, freshly cooked favourite food, perfume that somebody at home used or even the scent of rain on the ground outside.

Or perhaps it is a sound, laughter echoing in the house, that weird noise a door makes, the chatty dinner times or just the calm of quiet evenings.

What is that one smell or sound that instantly takes you back home, no matter where you are today?

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M/44 Unverified 26 days ago

Place for love and understanding

M/26 Unverified 26 days ago

It reminds me of my childhood memories playing and watching cartoons. And the festival vibes instantly takes me back home.

?/ Unverified 32 days ago

Freshly cooked favourite food

F/43 Unverified 74 days ago

the smell of delicious food, chatter and laughter

F/47 Verified 97 days ago

laughter and smiles waiting at home for me